After practicing law for over twenty years, I have seen it more times than I can count. People get caught up in the details and lose the ability to see the big picture. In the words of the old saying, "they can't see the forest for the trees." In a divorce, it is easy to get caught up in the details. From one spouse: "You just want that mixer to hurt me because you know I love to cook." From the other spouse: "You just don't want me to have the kids on Christmas because you a